Hi there my name is Bima and thank you for visiting my blog, if this gonna be your first time to know me than this blog is containing of my wedding photography works that I’ve done together with my wife, so we’ve been a husband and wife photographer team for over than 10 years.
My today topic isn’t related to wedding photography even if you wanna see my works than simply go to portfolio.
It’s Nina, a beautiful woman that I knew at the first time on 2005 just like any other teen movie than I met her in the first time when she play a keyboard on my friend’s birthday, Damn! she was so beautiful! And lately I can go to her home in the next month.
I’m a typical person who shy to say ‘I love you’ even in one night I try my best to say it to her.
My love story isn’t that simple even I could tell you that I married with Nina after 4 years of partnership and both of us at the age of 24, so young right!
What I think is once I got married than I want to focus my mind on my photography business and I’m sure that everything is gonna be easy if I do it with Nina, by the way she start accompany me during photo shoot since we were a partner and I always feel calm and happy when capturing the moment but meantime I can see her in some corner.
Just Try to Love Your Wife!
So many people in this world don’t want to get married cause they thing marriage is complicated so being a partner is way easier.
When I’ve get booked for photo shoot no matter it’s an engagement or wedding than I can feel happy for what my couple had. Marriage is a big decision right, it’s totally not easy so if you are a person who got this chance than I would say congratulation to you.
I could tell you that the happiest moment chapter of having married will end in the next couple of weeks following your honeymoon, at least this is what I feel. But the good things is now you entering your real life chapter, it means you gonna feel happy and sorrow, should be both and you can choose only one!
On that day you will start to know that your wife got ton of mistake, error, or you will see your wife bad side at the very first time.
Surprisingly, this situation is not happen to you but generally your wife got the same feeling like you. Your wife will know your arrogance at the first time or even more she think that you not kind of romantic guy just like before and be aware when she got the period than everything is used to be worst.
If you facing this situation already than as a friend to friend saying I just wanna tell you that, Just Try to Love Your Wife!
Marriage is Not to Find Who is the Right Person, You Should Synergize
When you don’t married yet than you will think that how people love each other is by being similar needs or same thinking, you definitely wrong!
Marriage is not the to find who is the right person or how for being similar each other but marriage is about how to make a synergy between two differences that is you and your wife. Sometimes you love red and your wife love blue….but you can find the right answer is yellow cause yellow is the only decision that will make you both stay together and everything works well.
So it will be fine if your wife have a different argument and mean you too, go discuss with her and talk in person about what you should guys do to make the best decision.
Try to Say Sorry First, but It’s Freakin’ Hard!
There is a good story that I ever read when a dad facing his son who gonna get married, suddenly his daddy is asking him to say sorry for three times without any reason and this situation made his son angry and asking why to his dad.
‘If you can say sorry for any thing that you think is right than now you are ready to get married my son!’ that’s what his dad telling him.
When you facing a hard situation between you and your wife than try to say sorry first even I knew that you will think that it’s ain’t fair cause here you think that you are right.
Think once again for what the dad saying to his son, he just wanna telling us that woman’s heart is unpredictable and as Rose Kelvert said to her grandchild that woman’s heart is as deep as as ocean so it means no body will know what inside the heart.
When you try to say sorry at the first time that it is so hard but try to say it cause you will normalize the situation!
I did too when I was facing problem with Nina, we just can know me first or she first who gonna say sorry for the first time and believe me this is what our marriage is growing better for every single day and once you read my story here we still being a husband and wife photographer team and serving our worldwide couple marriage in such beautiful place called Maldives, surely we want to walk on the beach tomorrow morning and enjoying the beautiful sunrise scene with crystal clear sea water for sure.
How to Love Your Wife More and More!
Think as simple as you can than always find the right time to talk in person with your wife no matter while you driving or simply when you buy a cheap ice cream cone on the street.
I could recommend you to read some great guidance of marriage, they have a part both for men and women and that’s the thing. It would tell you more in detail about how to love your wife or even how to love your husband so it would be nice if you read it together.
I hope you got an inspiration from what I share today and if you like it just simply write a comment below, it was so nice to know you here and I hope someday i can meet you or capturing your glorious family moment with someone that you love.
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